Meet the team behind
The Family Lawyer

Your situation is unique. Your solution should be too.

We help people understand their options, make informed decisions and move toward resolution with a strategy built around their circumstances.

Meet the team

The people behind The Family Lawyer.

A specialist family law team - lawyers, support staff, and one black Labrador. Each person below is someone you'll meet, speak with, or work alongside through your matter.

Kristdel Bolog, Principal and Accredited Family Law Specialist

Kristdel Bolog

Principal · Accredited Specialist BA (Crim), LLB, GDLP, AccS(Fam)

Accredited Family Law Specialist with over a decade of experience. A trusted advocate guiding people through parenting and property matters with confidence and compassion.

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Christian Bolog

Christian Bolog

Principal JD, GDLP, MBA

Skilled at navigating complex, high-conflict disputes across family law, intervention orders, estates, property and commercial matters. Clear guidance at every step.

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Alexandra Monti, Practice Manager at The Family Lawyer

Alexandra Monti

Practice Manager

Practice Manager supporting team performance, culture and exceptional client service. Internationally trained in NLP, coaching and communication.

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Evan Gainsford

Evan Gainsford

Lawyer LLB, GDLP, GradDipFDR

Calm, solutions-focused family lawyer with experience in Family Dispute Resolution and child protection matters.

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Jenny Nguyen

Jenny Nguyen

Lawyer LLB, GDLP

Committed to clear, professional legal guidance. Known for a meticulous approach and sound legal judgment.

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Rebecca Heng

Rebecca Heng

Lawyer JD, GDLP, BCom (Hons)

Recognised for sharp legal insight and attention to detail, ensuring every case is managed with confidence and care.

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Eloise Pearce

Eloise Pearce

Legal Assistant LLB, BIntStudies

Ensures every matter progresses smoothly. Known for attention to detail and a genuinely responsive approach.

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Eunice Huang

Eunice Huang

Legal Assistant

In her fourth year of a Bachelor of Laws / Arts at Monash University. Currently studying Family Law and Coronial Law.

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Betty, Chief Happiness Officer

Betty

Chief Happiness Officer

The firm's black Labrador. Calm, comforting, and an expert at quality control of snack breaks.

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Awards and recognition

Recognition you can verify.

Each entry names the recipient and the exact recognition, with a link to its publisher source.

Year 2025
Publisher
Published award

Family Law Lawyer of the Year – Australia

RecipientKristdel Bolog

Recognised in the 2025 Lawyer Monthly Legal Awards.

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Year 2024
Publisher
Published award

Family Law Advocate of the Year 2024 (South East Australia)

RecipientKristdel Bolog

Recognised in the APAC Legal Awards 2024.

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Published award

Best Child Custody & Support Practice 2024 – South East Australia

RecipientThe Family Lawyer

Recognised in the APAC Legal Awards 2024.

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Who we help

People navigating real family law decisions - at a stressful time in their lives.

We help people navigating separation, parenting arrangements, property settlement, financial agreements, intervention orders, court proceedings and related family law issues.

Many people come to us at a stressful point in their life, unsure what matters most or what should happen next. Our work is to help them understand where they are, what is urgent, what can wait - and what the next practical step looks like.

Our difference and what to expect when you work with us.

A set of working principles that shape every conversation, every decision and every stage of your matter.

We Listen.

You're Understood.

We take the time to understand your situation, priorities and concerns so our advice is shaped around what matters to you.

We Explain.

You're Confident.

We translate complex family law issues into clear, practical advice so you understand your options, risks and next steps.

We Strategise.

You're Prepared.

Every matter is different. We build a tailored pathway directed to your circumstances, your priorities and the outcome you are working towards.

We're Transparent.

You're Informed.

We explain costs upfront, discuss available pricing options and provide regular updates so you can make informed decisions about your matter.

We Act.

You're Supported.

We take purposeful steps to progress your matter, prepare what is required and keep you focused on the decisions that move you closer to resolution.

We're Accessible.

You're Connected.

You have access to your lawyer when it matters, with responsive communication, regular updates and clear guidance throughout your matter.

Law Institute of Victoria · Accredited Specialist

How an Accredited Specialist helps you.

An Accredited Specialist is a lawyer who has recognised experience and up-to-date knowledge in a particular area or areas of law - so you can be assured of the quality of the advice that they give you.

Qualifications and experience

The Law Institute of Victoria, the peak legal body in Victoria, manages the course of assessment for Accredited Specialist accreditation.

  • At least five years' equivalent full-time experience since qualifying as a practising lawyer
  • At least three years' substantial experience in their area of legal specialisation
  • Passed a comprehensive assessment program that tests their knowledge and practical skills in that area of law
  • Maintain their knowledge and skills through re-accreditation every three years
Law Institute of Victoria Accredited Specialist seal
LIV · Accredited Specialist

Family Law Specialist on the team.

Re-assessed every three years to maintain currency of knowledge and practice.
“Using an Accredited Specialist means that you have confidence that your lawyer has the up-to-date knowledge and experience in their area of speciality to be able to guide you through your legal issue.”
Adam Awty  ·  CEO, Law Institute of Victoria
Frequently asked questions

Advice from our family law team.

Who will handle my matter?

Your enquiry will be directed to a lawyer with experience in the type of issue you need help with. Family law matters can involve very different legal and practical issues, so it is important that your matter is reviewed by someone who understands the specific area involved. For example, urgent parenting matters, property settlement, financial agreements, intervention orders, child support, spousal maintenance and Court proceedings each require a different approach.

When you enquire, we will consider the nature of your matter, the level of urgency, whether there are Court dates or deadlines, whether documents have already been served, and whether your matter requires specialist advice. If you have a preferred lawyer, you should tell us when you make your enquiry. We will discuss that lawyer's availability and whether they are the most suitable person to assist with your particular issue.

Where appropriate, your matter may involve more than one person in the firm. This may include a principal lawyer, solicitor, law clerk or administrative team member. The aim is to ensure your matter is managed efficiently, strategically and with the right level of expertise at each stage.

Do you appear in Court?

Yes. The firm can assist with negotiation, mediation and Court steps where required. Not every matter needs to go to Court, and in many cases the best outcome is achieved through early advice, negotiation, mediation, Family Dispute Resolution, consent orders or carefully drafted agreements. However, where Court proceedings are necessary, we can assist with preparation, strategy and representation through the relevant stages of the matter.

Court may be required where there are urgent parenting issues, family violence concerns, relocation concerns, recovery issues, non-disclosure, asset protection risks, contravention or enforcement issues, or where the other party will not engage reasonably. Court may also be necessary where interim orders are needed to stabilise children's arrangements, preserve property, require disclosure, or manage immediate financial concerns.

Effective Court representation is not limited to appearing on the day. It involves identifying the issues, preparing evidence, drafting appropriate orders, understanding the procedural pathway, considering negotiation opportunities and ensuring that your case is presented clearly. We will explain the purpose of each Court event, what is likely to happen, what documents are required and what decisions need to be made before the hearing.

How are costs explained?

Legal costs are explained at the beginning of the matter and as the matter progresses. We know that legal costs can be a major concern, particularly in family law matters where clients may also be managing separation, parenting stress, mortgage payments, business pressure, financial uncertainty or Court deadlines. Our role is to help you understand the likely cost of the work required and the factors that may affect those costs.

Costs are usually discussed during your appointment, set out in a costs agreement, and updated as your matter develops. Where possible, we provide estimates for particular stages of work. However, family law costs can be affected by factors outside your control, including the conduct of the other party, urgency, Court timetables, disclosure issues, the number of disputed issues, the quality of documents provided, and whether agreement can be reached.

You can help reduce costs by being organised, providing documents electronically, naming documents clearly, consolidating questions, responding promptly, following advice, and focusing on the issues that matter most. Using negotiation, mediation or other dispute resolution options where appropriate can also reduce costs, provided your legal position is still protected.

Where are your offices?

Our offices are located in Melbourne CBD, Boronia, Dandenong and Glen Iris. You can call our main number on 1300 111 835 and your enquiry will be directed to the appropriate person. If you have a preferred office location, you should let us know when arranging your appointment so we can discuss availability and suitability.

The appropriate office may depend on the nature of your matter, the lawyer assisting you, the urgency of the issue, and whether your appointment is best conducted in person, by phone or by video. Some matters are well suited to a phone or video appointment, particularly where the purpose of the appointment is to obtain preliminary advice, review documents, discuss strategy or identify the next steps. Other matters may be better suited to an in-person conference, especially where there are extensive documents, sensitive issues or complex Court material.

When booking, we will help determine the most practical appointment format. The priority is to ensure that you receive clear, timely and useful advice, whether your appointment is conducted in person or remotely.

Can I choose phone, video or in-person appointments?

Phone, video and in-person appointments may be available depending on your matter, the lawyer's availability and the type of advice required. Many family law appointments can be conducted effectively by phone or video, particularly where documents have been provided in advance and the purpose of the appointment is to obtain advice, understand your options, review Court documents or plan the next step.

In-person appointments may be preferable where your matter is complex, sensitive or document-heavy. This may include matters involving extensive financial disclosure, business interests, trusts, family violence issues, urgent Court documents, intervention orders, or circumstances where you feel more comfortable discussing your matter face-to-face.

The format of the appointment does not change the quality of the advice. What matters most is preparation. You should provide relevant documents before the appointment where possible, including Court documents, correspondence, financial material, agreements, intervention orders or any documents you have received from the other party or their lawyer.

When you enquire, we will discuss the most appropriate appointment format. The aim is to make the process efficient, accessible and suited to the legal issues requiring attention.

What should I prepare before my first appointment?

Before your first appointment, gather the key documents and information relevant to your matter. You do not need to have everything perfect, but the more organised the information is, the more targeted the advice can be. If you have received Court documents, letters from another lawyer, intervention order material, proposed agreements or financial documents, provide them before the appointment if possible.

For parenting matters, prepare the children's names and ages, current care arrangements, schooling, health issues, communication arrangements, any family violence concerns, and any existing parenting orders or agreements. For property matters, prepare a list of assets, liabilities, superannuation, income, businesses, trusts, companies, loans, inheritances, mortgages and any major financial changes since separation.

It is also helpful to prepare a short chronology. Include the date the relationship started, when you began living together, the date of marriage if applicable, the date of separation, major financial events, significant parenting events, Court dates and any urgent issues.

You should also write down your main questions. This helps ensure the appointment focuses on what matters most: your legal position, immediate risks, available options, likely next steps and the most efficient pathway forward.

- Ready when you are

You have more control than you think. Getting legal advice early can make all the difference.